CML,
Walking out in a moment of temper or in the name of a spiritual quest--in a moment of rushing emotions, is not the way to go! You have never done it before (saying 'good bye') with a flourish. Such self indulgence doesn't become you.
We need CM Lovers on the forum, especially the one who has lived up to that name. A pity, all the good you stand for--your love for CM, your nurturing ways, your sense of fellowship which extends to the young and old alike and above all, your lack of envy and strutting ego! Hope others think a bit on these too.
Yes, of late, you have been saying a few things which were off key (for whatever reasons--new medication, low blood sugar?). As friends, we try to figure out why. As for the younger generation on the forum, if we were elders in their own famiies, how would they look upon us, treat us? Strange, you have always been the one to whom age has not mattered, only the merits in others! Reminds me of situations where some parents nurtured you, gave you all that you have in your lives being relegated to the outhouse in neglect and abuse!
I see a friend making some verbal blunders and see him robbed of his dignity and the respect he has earned all these years! If I say that it hurts me to the extent that I feel that we seniors are perhaps useless limbs of the forum and that we should pack our bags and go, is that the right thing to say or do? If anyone of you say that I'm over-reacting in the name of friendship, then I ask you--how do you react when your friends (among peers) are in a spot like this? Abandon him/her? If so, well, what CML says about today's materialistic performers may also be true of their rasikAs.
There is a solution to this. Just as you would do with your friends when they make mistakes, alert your fellow-forumite (as you would your parents or grandparents, reasoning with them). Send a note by forum mail. That's a caring gesture. Think about how emotions can flare up on line. In the rush of the moment, we tend to give expression in response to rants and abusive statements! One ignites the other and the results are not pleasant. I bet even those who felt thatof late the forum was dull without any exciting discussions and arguments are not very pleased by all that's happening now--and add some exasperating side shows too, trolls being fed and so on.
Those who question disrespectful statements cannot 'be' disrespectful. Oh yes, indian culture is proud of/boasts of
respect to elders. And we elders on the forum do treat the young and the old of the forum as equals, admire their intelligence, wit and knowledge about CM and love to learn from them.
Enough words from the old lady
